Hear it from someone not out on the roads everyday! “How’s the hangover of the trip?” I can’t possibly give a fitting answer to that question yet. When I was asked to share my experiences of the trip, I did mention that my brain is finding it hard to register what happened because I’m… Continue reading Confessions of a Non-Traveler, as per Popular Opinion
First published here. Even educated professional women could be quite ignorant about the basic facts of sex and how to take precautions before, during and after sex. Sex education is the answer. I remember how my colleagues reacted with utter disbelief when I told them the story of a 14-year-old I saw on a TV… Continue reading How informed are we about Sex and Contraception? Not much!
First published here. “And in that moment of complete submission, I was free, liberated.” I had heard or read this line countless times, always wondering what it really meant! How can one ever attain liberation in submissiveness, in giving in? I had been a submissive person and it landed me in problems. Submissiveness leads to… Continue reading My Liberation from my Past: One Moment of Pure Submission to the Present
First published on Women's Web. Communication is a two-way street. It does not depend on gender or race or even class. Different settings require you to communicate in different ways. And non-verbal communication has always been a part of communicational strategy; all of us have been taught that in schools. I’m surprised to see that… Continue reading Aziz Ansari and the Art of Respectful Communication in Relationships
It’s there. In the middle of conversations, at the end of a funny joke, as the laughter dies a natural death on plum lips. It lies. Strangled to my wiry hair, cobwebbed all over a single pillow. It is stuck to the foam at the end of a beer bottle, lying beside all the others,… Continue reading Gham
Just a few hours before 2018 enters and my mother heaves a sigh of relief, telling me, “This year, everything good will happen to you!” Last year, on January 1, we had to abruptly cancel our New Year plans when I fell sick. And none of the plans worked in 2017. I am not gonna… Continue reading Year End Analysis of an Over-thinker
I have been blogging for the most of 2017. Amidst the cacophony of new political developments, economic upsurging and much more circus and drama, I tried to put up a brave front to the possibility of losing my job and coping with it. The first few months passed away in anticipation while April 25 brought… Continue reading Why I thought of Starting a New Blog? Because I am playing the Victim Card
Because it can cost you your soul First published here. It’s been two years since that night in Kolkata where I couldn’t sleep because of the incessant crying. The pain was too much to bear and I couldn’t even scream. I wasn’t in my home, I was in a guest house and I bore the… Continue reading Why you Should Never Put anyone on a Pedestal ?
The whole world is grappling with the consequences of a few women opening the can of worms around Harvey Weinstein and his company which allegedly took advantage of young wannabe female actors by subjecting them to sexual abuse and favors. It is not shocking for people in any industry to hear about such things happening… Continue reading Women Stay Silent for a Long Time before they Speak Up. Why? I’ll tell you Why!